PollRegarding sex, you prefer to be:
      – Nevermore, 2008-09-04 at 03:30:21   (16 comments)

On 2008-09-04 at 03:46:38, Nevermore wrote...
isn't anyone going to share how they voted?
On 2008-09-04 at 03:50:34, Korinthian wrote...
@Nevermore: The thing is that new threads don't show up on the "site activity" tab yet, not until someone posts a comment.
On 2008-09-04 at 03:50:43, Korinthian wrote...
No preference here.
On 2008-09-04 at 04:13:40, BorgClown wrote...
Aggressive mostly, but it gets boring if your partner gets used to being submissive and stops participating.
On 2008-09-04 at 04:18:51, Nevermore wrote...
I voted submissive, but I participate plenty.
On 2008-09-04 at 04:19:56, Nevermore wrote...
submissive does not mean passive
On 2008-09-04 at 04:22:36, BorgClown wrote...
LOL, can one be aggressive and passive?
On 2008-09-04 at 04:31:37, Nevermore wrote...
@BorgClown: No. But I don't think submissive means you just lie there like a dead fish.
On 2008-09-04 at 04:35:49, BorgClown wrote...
I see sex as a struggle for control. Sometimes you have it, sometimes you don't. The power game makes it more fun, it's boring to win all the time.
On 2008-09-04 at 04:37:05, BorgClown wrote...
So a woman who participates is in fact taking control, and becoming aggressive. And if I let her proceed, I'm being passive. then the roles switch back. And forth.
On 2008-09-04 at 04:38:40, BorgClown wrote...
I should make an effort to separate aggressive/submissive and active/passive. It's just that I see them as the same in bed.
On 2008-09-04 at 19:56:24, Nevermore wrote...
a submissive lover is active if they do what the fuck they're told :P
On 2008-09-07 at 19:25:58, Scarletxstarlet wrote...
I am usually aggressive about initiating it, but after that, I let my partner take the reins.
On 2008-09-08 at 21:18:10, RudystillRules wrote...
@Scarletxstarlet: If he makes it past the initiation that is...
On 2008-09-09 at 00:08:05, Baslisks wrote...
ummm I don't know what I am....
On 2008-09-10 at 01:51:02, Saywhat wrote...
Engaged in,