OpinionIt's delusional to expect the mystery to remain on a long-term relationship
      – BorgClown, 2008-12-16 at 20:52:20   (6 comments)

On 2008-12-16 at 20:56:27, BorgClown wrote...
There are people who think that a couple should maintain the mystery even if on a long-term relationship and/or marriage. Personally, I think it would stagnate the intimacy of the relationship. Sure, it's not sexy to know what your S.O. does in the afternoon or weekends, how he/she lives, how bad is the morning breath, etc., but that's what intimacy is all about, and you further build up from there. Not all needs to be told, but hiding or obscuring yourself just for the sake of remaining 'interesting' is a fallacy.
On 2008-12-17 at 16:32:30, Scarletxstarlet wrote...
I don't think mystery is conducive to trust, or commitment, or all those other fun things that come along with a long-term relationship.
On 2008-12-17 at 18:54:10, BorgClown wrote...
oooo, a cute female! I'll put my best looking avatar.
On 2008-12-17 at 18:55:15, BorgClown wrote...
It's great to see you back Scarlet. You missed the SB funeral.
On 2008-12-17 at 21:21:40, Scarletxstarlet wrote...
I wish I could hang around more often, Borg; maybe when Chris moves in, we can join forces to pay for WiFi.
On 2008-12-18 at 06:37:52, BorgClown wrote...
Aren't there neighbors with open networks?